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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 535362" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>If police want to continue the investigation, they wouldn't use a private investigator. Maybe a police detective, but a PI works on their own.........At least this is they way I've always understood it. They might hand over info they find to the police, but the police don't go seeking them out to do their jobs. So if it is a PI poking around, you need to know why. But I have to agree, you need a lawyer asap. </p><p></p><p>Sadly, if difficult child refuses medications/treatment and is destroying your home and threatening you, he needs to be out........regardless of a diagnosis or no diagnosis. in my opinion, he needs to face the consequences of his actions as well. No, it's not easy to have a child in jail, but you didn't ask for him to do the junk he's done either........nor do you deserve to be treated that way regardless. </p><p></p><p>Police may have a very valid reason to come and investigate further, might be he's been in trouble elsewhere and done similar acts and they're trying to establish a pattern of behavior. Might be they're going to push the issue since it would've been a DV call and the state will press the charges.</p><p></p><p>Either way, you need a lawyer. And I'm glad you've got a therapist. I hope they're good, cuz you've had more than enough right now.</p><p></p><p>(((hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 535362, member: 84"] If police want to continue the investigation, they wouldn't use a private investigator. Maybe a police detective, but a PI works on their own.........At least this is they way I've always understood it. They might hand over info they find to the police, but the police don't go seeking them out to do their jobs. So if it is a PI poking around, you need to know why. But I have to agree, you need a lawyer asap. Sadly, if difficult child refuses medications/treatment and is destroying your home and threatening you, he needs to be out........regardless of a diagnosis or no diagnosis. in my opinion, he needs to face the consequences of his actions as well. No, it's not easy to have a child in jail, but you didn't ask for him to do the junk he's done either........nor do you deserve to be treated that way regardless. Police may have a very valid reason to come and investigate further, might be he's been in trouble elsewhere and done similar acts and they're trying to establish a pattern of behavior. Might be they're going to push the issue since it would've been a DV call and the state will press the charges. Either way, you need a lawyer. And I'm glad you've got a therapist. I hope they're good, cuz you've had more than enough right now. (((hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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