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<blockquote data-quote="Tiapet" data-source="post: 612725" data-attributes="member: 455"><p>Forgive me if I didn't see or don't know (because you are in Canada) but what about the IEP process? Did the school do any of this? Did he have any kind of Behavioral Intervention plan or any manifest determination? Since he's had so many suspensions I would have hoped so because it could offer him "some" protection but not completely. As you are seeing and understand, there is obviously a lot more to what's going on with him. Way more. I too would be very leery of the conduct disorders label at his age. I'm wondering if all the different medications earlier might not have also "tripped" a trigger in causing some of the problems too that lead up to this. For example, many of us have really bad problems with our kids that go on Adderall, like violence! Mine did. My oldest child, who's now an adult (still has many issues) often paradoxed medication she was put on at such a young age. The behaviors were so severely the opposite of what they expected (much like what you son is displaying). If I hadn't have come to this board and learned when she was 6 and it all was going haywire and continuing, I don't know what would have happened. I imagine I'd be where you are now as she was where you're son is. I learned enough to change it all. Learning the right path like finding the right doctors who will listen, doing the right testing with the doctors and the school made a big difference. Also having and IEP in place and providing her the necessary tools to help. I do hope that you are able to get the help you need and that your son is able to get into a better situation for both his sake and your families.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiapet, post: 612725, member: 455"] Forgive me if I didn't see or don't know (because you are in Canada) but what about the IEP process? Did the school do any of this? Did he have any kind of Behavioral Intervention plan or any manifest determination? Since he's had so many suspensions I would have hoped so because it could offer him "some" protection but not completely. As you are seeing and understand, there is obviously a lot more to what's going on with him. Way more. I too would be very leery of the conduct disorders label at his age. I'm wondering if all the different medications earlier might not have also "tripped" a trigger in causing some of the problems too that lead up to this. For example, many of us have really bad problems with our kids that go on Adderall, like violence! Mine did. My oldest child, who's now an adult (still has many issues) often paradoxed medication she was put on at such a young age. The behaviors were so severely the opposite of what they expected (much like what you son is displaying). If I hadn't have come to this board and learned when she was 6 and it all was going haywire and continuing, I don't know what would have happened. I imagine I'd be where you are now as she was where you're son is. I learned enough to change it all. Learning the right path like finding the right doctors who will listen, doing the right testing with the doctors and the school made a big difference. Also having and IEP in place and providing her the necessary tools to help. I do hope that you are able to get the help you need and that your son is able to get into a better situation for both his sake and your families. [/QUOTE]
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