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Always At Their Mercy - Nothing is Black and White
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 750784" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I don't know what to write, Chickpea. Because it will sound as if I don't understand how hard this is. But I do.Dear ChickPea. Nobody should cross your threshold against your will. You know this. You have the option of denying her entry.</p><p></p><p>What can I write to you that will help?</p><p>Her expectations may be running the show now, but they don't have to.</p><p></p><p>Until you set boundaries and maintain them you will be at your daughter's mercy.</p><p></p><p>What is the status now of custody? Is this your fear? That she will seize the baby? If she has legal rights this will continue until either you get legal rights, or stop her from terrorizing you. I don't believe she will stop, unless you stop her, or Child Protective Services does. Rather, she will escalate, as she is doing.</p><p></p><p>There is no black and white until you make it so. </p><p></p><p>You deserve emotional safety. You deserve to have boundaries in your home and around your person. Physical boundaries and emotional ones. The baby does too. </p><p></p><p>What do you want to happen? How can we support you?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 750784, member: 18958"] I don't know what to write, Chickpea. Because it will sound as if I don't understand how hard this is. But I do.Dear ChickPea. Nobody should cross your threshold against your will. You know this. You have the option of denying her entry. What can I write to you that will help? Her expectations may be running the show now, but they don't have to. Until you set boundaries and maintain them you will be at your daughter's mercy. What is the status now of custody? Is this your fear? That she will seize the baby? If she has legal rights this will continue until either you get legal rights, or stop her from terrorizing you. I don't believe she will stop, unless you stop her, or Child Protective Services does. Rather, she will escalate, as she is doing. There is no black and white until you make it so. You deserve emotional safety. You deserve to have boundaries in your home and around your person. Physical boundaries and emotional ones. The baby does too. What do you want to happen? How can we support you? [/QUOTE]
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