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Always At Their Mercy - Nothing is Black and White
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<blockquote data-quote="Chasejazz" data-source="post: 750822" data-attributes="member: 24130"><p>I wrote that weekends are the worst.</p><p>I'm not quite sure why. For some reason I feel like I'm going to get leveled in a sneak attack. Weird!</p><p></p><p>As far as your daughter, I don't know.</p><p>My kids act like they want to punish me.</p><p>They hurt themselves with their choices, and try to bring me into it the tiniest of bits so they can dump the blame of their failures on me. </p><p>Failed marriages. Bankruptcies. Lost apartments and cars. You name it.</p><p>The anger, the arguments were outlandish.</p><p>I used to cry openly, I would sob, and they would leave just the room or the house as if victorious.</p><p>There is not, for me, a surefire way to start rebuilding.</p><p>But I have to start by totally letting go.</p><p>I am divorced and poured my life into my family for nearly 40 years, so there is a lot of living for me to learn.</p><p>It's lonely right now, but perhaps not forever, and at least it's safe.</p><p></p><p>I hope you find peace.</p><p></p><p><strong>"...Ruin is a gift. Ruin is the road to transformation." - Elizabeth Gilbert, <em>Eat, Pray, Love</em></strong></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Chasejazz, post: 750822, member: 24130"] I wrote that weekends are the worst. I'm not quite sure why. For some reason I feel like I'm going to get leveled in a sneak attack. Weird! As far as your daughter, I don't know. My kids act like they want to punish me. They hurt themselves with their choices, and try to bring me into it the tiniest of bits so they can dump the blame of their failures on me. Failed marriages. Bankruptcies. Lost apartments and cars. You name it. The anger, the arguments were outlandish. I used to cry openly, I would sob, and they would leave just the room or the house as if victorious. There is not, for me, a surefire way to start rebuilding. But I have to start by totally letting go. I am divorced and poured my life into my family for nearly 40 years, so there is a lot of living for me to learn. It's lonely right now, but perhaps not forever, and at least it's safe. I hope you find peace. [B]"...Ruin is a gift. Ruin is the road to transformation." - Elizabeth Gilbert, [I]Eat, Pray, Love[/I][/B] [/QUOTE]
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