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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 160981" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>toto - </p><p> </p><p>Someday I would love to know how far you had to dig down in your soul to forgive this man and what you did to do it. Because I don't think I could. Matter of fact I know I can't for Dude's sake regarding his father's abuse. </p><p> </p><p>I don't know if you're stupid or not. Well you know of course I don't think you're stupid, but I get what you are asking - You're asking "Am I asking for it - again?" </p><p> </p><p>My answer would be yes, yes you are, but this time it seems like you have your safety net in place and a plan should it go South. That's very good thinking on your part. And I get where husband is coming from. My DF will NEVER agree to have my x anywhere near me or Dude in his presence. But he wouldn't allow either of us to be present without him there. </p><p> </p><p>I gotta tell ya kid - you really are being the bigger person here because I see you trying to move forward and you haven't had a chance to put the past behind you. If I had to guess I'd say you probably suffer from severe PTSD. I also think it could aggrivate your BiPolar (BP) at times. -flashbacks and such. </p><p> </p><p>Over all it sounds like a good plan, and if the man pays his bills it helps you out financially - so you get something out of it. Maybe (tongue in cheek) you could ask for credit references. lol) ahhhh I'm so not forgiving of abusive pasts. </p><p> </p><p>Hugs</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 160981, member: 4964"] toto - Someday I would love to know how far you had to dig down in your soul to forgive this man and what you did to do it. Because I don't think I could. Matter of fact I know I can't for Dude's sake regarding his father's abuse. I don't know if you're stupid or not. Well you know of course I don't think you're stupid, but I get what you are asking - You're asking "Am I asking for it - again?" My answer would be yes, yes you are, but this time it seems like you have your safety net in place and a plan should it go South. That's very good thinking on your part. And I get where husband is coming from. My DF will NEVER agree to have my x anywhere near me or Dude in his presence. But he wouldn't allow either of us to be present without him there. I gotta tell ya kid - you really are being the bigger person here because I see you trying to move forward and you haven't had a chance to put the past behind you. If I had to guess I'd say you probably suffer from severe PTSD. I also think it could aggrivate your BiPolar (BP) at times. -flashbacks and such. Over all it sounds like a good plan, and if the man pays his bills it helps you out financially - so you get something out of it. Maybe (tongue in cheek) you could ask for credit references. lol) ahhhh I'm so not forgiving of abusive pasts. Hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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