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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 676332" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>Sea, Oh I feel for you right now. It is so hard to see our sons behave so badly and to be so cruel and unfeeling towards us.</p><p></p><p>It makes sense to me that right now you keep your distance and to not contact him. He treated you horribly after you did some very nice things for him. And he is 24, technically an adult and so you don't need to parent him anymore.</p><p></p><p>However I don't think you need to think about this as a forever thing.....maybe right now it feels like forever but he is still young (same age as my son) and things change. Drugs do all sorts of things to people and their personalities. </p><p></p><p>But yes for now there is nothing you can really do until he can take responsibility for his own behavior which right now he is not doing.</p><p></p><p>Definitely spend this time taking care of yourself.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 676332, member: 15801"] Sea, Oh I feel for you right now. It is so hard to see our sons behave so badly and to be so cruel and unfeeling towards us. It makes sense to me that right now you keep your distance and to not contact him. He treated you horribly after you did some very nice things for him. And he is 24, technically an adult and so you don't need to parent him anymore. However I don't think you need to think about this as a forever thing.....maybe right now it feels like forever but he is still young (same age as my son) and things change. Drugs do all sorts of things to people and their personalities. But yes for now there is nothing you can really do until he can take responsibility for his own behavior which right now he is not doing. Definitely spend this time taking care of yourself. TL [/QUOTE]
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