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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 611181" data-attributes="member: 1550">Hi again. Well, today he flipped out again because he didn't like an answer I gave him. Now he is stressing that even though he got his way his ex still wants to go to litigation even though the judge, the GAL and her own lawyer are pressuring her to settle. The lady has a noodle for a brain. However, she CAN take it to court if she wants to. It won't change anything that has already been decided if they do go, but 35 is still on edge. Since he won what he wanted, I didn't feel at all that I needed to listen so I put the phone down until he realized I wasn't listening and hung up...lol.Witz, he is 35. He isn't going to change. When he is not under undue stress he is simply more tolerable than when he is under stress, in which he is almost insane, maybe even dangerous. I would like to see my grandson, but after his mild blowup today, it's not time to plan a visit yet. I was so excited about maybe seeing grandson again that I was thinking, &quot;I can stay only three days and just stay with 35 in his house. It'll be ok.&quot; Well, I think it's best now if I stay in a hotel. That will take a considerable amount of time to save up for so I can't go for a long, long time and 35 may change my heart about going in the meantime.You are all right. I have to stay safe most of all. I do feel bad that grandson is stuck with such crazy parents and I'd like to be there for him.....but he's so far away and we don't have enough money for me to make plane trips back and forth and stay at hotels and rent cars so I am sort of unable to do much. It stinks, but it is what it is.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 611181, member: 1550"] Hi again. Well, today he flipped out again because he didn't like an answer I gave him. Now he is stressing that even though he got his way his ex still wants to go to litigation even though the judge, the GAL and her own lawyer are pressuring her to settle. The lady has a noodle for a brain. However, she CAN take it to court if she wants to. It won't change anything that has already been decided if they do go, but 35 is still on edge. Since he won what he wanted, I didn't feel at all that I needed to listen so I put the phone down until he realized I wasn't listening and hung up...lol. Witz, he is 35. He isn't going to change. When he is not under undue stress he is simply more tolerable than when he is under stress, in which he is almost insane, maybe even dangerous. I would like to see my grandson, but after his mild blowup today, it's not time to plan a visit yet. I was so excited about maybe seeing grandson again that I was thinking, "I can stay only three days and just stay with 35 in his house. It'll be ok." Well, I think it's best now if I stay in a hotel. That will take a considerable amount of time to save up for so I can't go for a long, long time and 35 may change my heart about going in the meantime. You are all right. I have to stay safe most of all. I do feel bad that grandson is stuck with such crazy parents and I'd like to be there for him.....but he's so far away and we don't have enough money for me to make plane trips back and forth and stay at hotels and rent cars so I am sort of unable to do much. It stinks, but it is what it is. [/QUOTE]

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