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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 753006" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Oh Copa, I hope you feel better. Migraines are awful. Thank you for responding although you weren’t feeling well.</p><p></p><p> I may as well have just copied your entire post, it is the way I feel about my two. Off the reservation. While Rain showered, her boyfriend admitted that she was still using meth, but “Not near as much as she used to.”</p><p>Sorry, I don’t think there is any amount of that stuff you could use and be normal.</p><p></p><p>Our welfare does not factor in. If they weren’t my kids, I would not have anything to do with them. There, I wrote it.</p><p>As I retyped those words “our welfare does not factor in” It is a reminder of this brokenness in our relationship, our blood ties us together, sweet memories of their childhood, but for now, contact is a danger.</p><p></p><p> Agreed. 100 percent.</p><p></p><p>It is painful to see my daughters morph into the characters they have become. Physically and mentally. I barely recognize them. And yet, I do.</p><p></p><p> That is the hard part Copa, knowing that I can’t fix someone who does not want to be fixed. My daughters do not want to stop using meth. They continue risky behaviors.</p><p></p><p> I have too much at stake here with responsibilities for my grands. My eldest said in a matter of fact tone, “Tutu, you have to put them on the side of your mind, they are adults. They are going to do what they are going to do.”</p><p>Truth.</p><p>Thank you Copa. I hope you are feeling better.</p><p>Love and hugs</p><p>New Leaf</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 753006, member: 19522"] Oh Copa, I hope you feel better. Migraines are awful. Thank you for responding although you weren’t feeling well. I may as well have just copied your entire post, it is the way I feel about my two. Off the reservation. While Rain showered, her boyfriend admitted that she was still using meth, but “Not near as much as she used to.” Sorry, I don’t think there is any amount of that stuff you could use and be normal. Our welfare does not factor in. If they weren’t my kids, I would not have anything to do with them. There, I wrote it. As I retyped those words “our welfare does not factor in” It is a reminder of this brokenness in our relationship, our blood ties us together, sweet memories of their childhood, but for now, contact is a danger. Agreed. 100 percent. It is painful to see my daughters morph into the characters they have become. Physically and mentally. I barely recognize them. And yet, I do. That is the hard part Copa, knowing that I can’t fix someone who does not want to be fixed. My daughters do not want to stop using meth. They continue risky behaviors. I have too much at stake here with responsibilities for my grands. My eldest said in a matter of fact tone, “Tutu, you have to put them on the side of your mind, they are adults. They are going to do what they are going to do.” Truth. Thank you Copa. I hope you are feeling better. Love and hugs New Leaf [/QUOTE]
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