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And the beat goes on.....learning to deal with my son
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 716834" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>I can relate so much this and I'm so sorry you are going through this.</p><p></p><p>When my son and girlfriend at the time got pregnant I strapped in because I knew it would be a wild roller coaster ride. They eventually married which did not end well - another long story. The girlfriend was very hesitant to marry my son and during that time my son would rant to me about how he had rights and would fight her for custody. He wanted me to testify for him which I told him I couldn't. When he asked why I told him I would be obligated to tell the truth about him and it wasn't good. I got the same rant as you did, how if I had been a better mother his life wouldn't be a mess, how he would be a great dad, blah, blah, blah. My son has 2 children that he abandoned. Yup, he's a "great dad" alright.<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite12" alt="o_O" title="Er... what? o_O" loading="lazy" data-shortname="o_O" /></p><p></p><p>Your grandchild is lucky to have you and your daughter looking out for him. </p><p></p><p>It's hard enough to deal with an adult difficult child but when they start having children it compounds everything. </p><p></p><p>All you can do is what is in the best interest for your grandchild. </p><p></p><p>I'm glad you shared and vented to us.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there!!!</p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/notalone.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":notalone:" title="notalone :notalone:" data-shortname=":notalone:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/staystrong.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":staystrong:" title="staystrong :staystrong:" data-shortname=":staystrong:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 716834, member: 18516"] I can relate so much this and I'm so sorry you are going through this. When my son and girlfriend at the time got pregnant I strapped in because I knew it would be a wild roller coaster ride. They eventually married which did not end well - another long story. The girlfriend was very hesitant to marry my son and during that time my son would rant to me about how he had rights and would fight her for custody. He wanted me to testify for him which I told him I couldn't. When he asked why I told him I would be obligated to tell the truth about him and it wasn't good. I got the same rant as you did, how if I had been a better mother his life wouldn't be a mess, how he would be a great dad, blah, blah, blah. My son has 2 children that he abandoned. Yup, he's a "great dad" alright.o_O Your grandchild is lucky to have you and your daughter looking out for him. It's hard enough to deal with an adult difficult child but when they start having children it compounds everything. All you can do is what is in the best interest for your grandchild. I'm glad you shared and vented to us. Hang in there!!! :notalone::staystrong: [/QUOTE]
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