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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 732508" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>My parents are also dead. My mother was awful to me and never acknowledged my kids. Although I understand missing your parents if they loved you, even if they pissed you off sometimes, not everyone had that same love connection. I don't miss my mother at all. I barely saw her during her last decade. She didn't want to see me which was probably best. When she died it was like a stranger died. I had tried to form a better relationship but she wouldn't do it. Oh well. She was very abusive to me and I have no fond memories of her. She disinherited me in the end, which I expected but it still hurt.</p><p></p><p>She wouldn't come to my wedding, my children's birthdays, she didn't even ever lay eyes on my youngest two kids. She was quite alive but chose not to participate. RN, it was her choice to miss everything your parents did.</p><p></p><p>Certain parents are way beyond just ticking you off. Mine was cruel. I imagine it is hard to understand if your parents loved you. I am sorry you lost your parents young. I am not convinced you would have missed a mother like mine who not only spit on me but also my kids. Again though for us it was best. She was very abusive and unaccepting. I most remember her screaming at me with wild hair and eyes and still dream about her that way.</p><p></p><p>I would be careful before judging. Like all forums, we need to be respected here too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 732508, member: 1550"] My parents are also dead. My mother was awful to me and never acknowledged my kids. Although I understand missing your parents if they loved you, even if they pissed you off sometimes, not everyone had that same love connection. I don't miss my mother at all. I barely saw her during her last decade. She didn't want to see me which was probably best. When she died it was like a stranger died. I had tried to form a better relationship but she wouldn't do it. Oh well. She was very abusive to me and I have no fond memories of her. She disinherited me in the end, which I expected but it still hurt. She wouldn't come to my wedding, my children's birthdays, she didn't even ever lay eyes on my youngest two kids. She was quite alive but chose not to participate. RN, it was her choice to miss everything your parents did. Certain parents are way beyond just ticking you off. Mine was cruel. I imagine it is hard to understand if your parents loved you. I am sorry you lost your parents young. I am not convinced you would have missed a mother like mine who not only spit on me but also my kids. Again though for us it was best. She was very abusive and unaccepting. I most remember her screaming at me with wild hair and eyes and still dream about her that way. I would be careful before judging. Like all forums, we need to be respected here too. [/QUOTE]
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