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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 713723" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Thanks. Actually I think it helps me to not talk with him. I do not know when that will end for me. I think engaging with him when I know he is not doing what I expect of him - only going through the motions of what we want from him it seems - seems to help me detach to the point where I feel better. It is all very confusing. </p><p></p><p>I'm letting my husband handle dealing with him for now. I don't know when I'll be ready to have a relationship with him again but it isn't something I want right now. I don't think in the end it makes a difference to how he decides to do things. I know he doesn't like it but maybe that is a good thing. </p><p></p><p>We did book Florida visits for Thanksgiving and Christmas for ourselves. Whether we will see our son or not is up in the air. He is 2.5 hours away from our condo. I'm hoping by then I'll be ready or I'll see change that make me want to see him. Truly none of it makes sense.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 713723, member: 15032"] Thanks. Actually I think it helps me to not talk with him. I do not know when that will end for me. I think engaging with him when I know he is not doing what I expect of him - only going through the motions of what we want from him it seems - seems to help me detach to the point where I feel better. It is all very confusing. I'm letting my husband handle dealing with him for now. I don't know when I'll be ready to have a relationship with him again but it isn't something I want right now. I don't think in the end it makes a difference to how he decides to do things. I know he doesn't like it but maybe that is a good thing. We did book Florida visits for Thanksgiving and Christmas for ourselves. Whether we will see our son or not is up in the air. He is 2.5 hours away from our condo. I'm hoping by then I'll be ready or I'll see change that make me want to see him. Truly none of it makes sense. [/QUOTE]
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