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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 616395" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>Thank you, Recovering. I feel fortunate that you are reading and commenting on my posts. It would totally suck to go through this on my own, and would take so much longer that I might never see my own patterns, at all.</p><p></p><p>On to the persecutor role.</p><p></p><p>I can see part of it, already. All of my wonderfulness, all of their badness in return. Labels, unspoken ones, unvoiced assumptions and beliefs being most harmful of all, maybe. I can see myself riding a certain kind of validation throughout; can even see the put upon, depressed martyr. That is probably why Scott G's post on not judging keeps repeating itself in my thoughts.</p><p></p><p>I can see the patterns reaching into areas not having to do with my kids. Not just perfectionism out of fear of not being enough, but of riding that wave of better than, smarter than, more than.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 616395, member: 17461"] Thank you, Recovering. I feel fortunate that you are reading and commenting on my posts. It would totally suck to go through this on my own, and would take so much longer that I might never see my own patterns, at all. On to the persecutor role. I can see part of it, already. All of my wonderfulness, all of their badness in return. Labels, unspoken ones, unvoiced assumptions and beliefs being most harmful of all, maybe. I can see myself riding a certain kind of validation throughout; can even see the put upon, depressed martyr. That is probably why Scott G's post on not judging keeps repeating itself in my thoughts. I can see the patterns reaching into areas not having to do with my kids. Not just perfectionism out of fear of not being enough, but of riding that wave of better than, smarter than, more than. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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