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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 617217" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>Temps in Minnesota the day of the hearing for difficult child male were something like 38 below zero. (!) His hearing is postponed until next Monday.</p><p></p><p>Harmonious neurosis. Exactly right, Recovering. We are in the creative throes of composing another kind of music, now. Me by choice, and husband because he has no choice. I like that imagery, very much.</p><p></p><p>Another dream I have already shared. About the old fuse box in my Grandmother's house. And the scary part was: "And the wires connect. And the music...plays of its own accord."</p><p></p><p>*************</p><p></p><p>"When you no longer allow that shame to be dumped on you...." Yes, again, Recovering. And truly, it really must suck. That is exactly what seems to be happening. Stay the course, then. No one else can heal our sense of shame. For husband to have felt relief through both of us believing I was wrong or inept or any other bad thing cannot have been helpful to either of us. The illusion of false comfort...but underneath, you know darn well that isn't real. Harmonious neurosis!</p><p></p><p>Ha!</p><p></p><p>I love that phrase.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 617217, member: 17461"] Temps in Minnesota the day of the hearing for difficult child male were something like 38 below zero. (!) His hearing is postponed until next Monday. Harmonious neurosis. Exactly right, Recovering. We are in the creative throes of composing another kind of music, now. Me by choice, and husband because he has no choice. I like that imagery, very much. Another dream I have already shared. About the old fuse box in my Grandmother's house. And the scary part was: "And the wires connect. And the music...plays of its own accord." ************* "When you no longer allow that shame to be dumped on you...." Yes, again, Recovering. And truly, it really must suck. That is exactly what seems to be happening. Stay the course, then. No one else can heal our sense of shame. For husband to have felt relief through both of us believing I was wrong or inept or any other bad thing cannot have been helpful to either of us. The illusion of false comfort...but underneath, you know darn well that isn't real. Harmonious neurosis! Ha! I love that phrase. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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