Kathy our difficult child's think alike.. Instead of being gratefult hat they saved her life she's upset that they cut her blouse and bra.
Today I found out that my difficult child has not paid one electricity or gas bill since she moved into her apartment. I asked her how long she thought she could go without paying before they shut her off and she said "about six months".
I agree that putting your retirement at risk is not an option. Kathy no one is going to be there to take care of you and husband in the future. You need to take care of yourselves. Her therapist should be able to help point you int he right direction. I still think SSI is something to look into.
Nancy