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anyone else's addict act like this?
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<blockquote data-quote="tryingtobestrong" data-source="post: 746869" data-attributes="member: 22817"><p>It has been over 2 weeks since he made any contact with me. I am on the fence as should I send a text to see how he is doing or just let it be... He has really upset us all with his actions, how he treats others when he doesn't get his way (-verbal lashing and abuse- says horrible things, wishes horrible things on the person who didn't give in) </p><p>I look back at every thing we did for him- every time he asked us to help him we did what he wanted - like break the lease, pack his things, move, take his pets, etc. and he never followed through on his end- always quit the IOP.</p><p>I don't know if he is sober or not. Living alone with no accountability no support no drug tests... just not sure. </p><p>I offered to pay for a recovery coach who drug tests and he would see him once a week and he declined. </p><p>I am starting to let go. It is what it is. My son doesn't care at all about his family or about how much we have spent on him. My parents helped him with his credit card bills and he has yet to pay them back like he promised - doesn't even attempt to make contact with them.</p><p>When I look back on everything, I get angry and strong and think "I will not reach out to him. He doesn't give a shi* about us at all" He blocked his sister from social media and called her a horrible name because she wouldn't help him. She despises him as well because of all we have done for him and he doesn't care.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tryingtobestrong, post: 746869, member: 22817"] It has been over 2 weeks since he made any contact with me. I am on the fence as should I send a text to see how he is doing or just let it be... He has really upset us all with his actions, how he treats others when he doesn't get his way (-verbal lashing and abuse- says horrible things, wishes horrible things on the person who didn't give in) I look back at every thing we did for him- every time he asked us to help him we did what he wanted - like break the lease, pack his things, move, take his pets, etc. and he never followed through on his end- always quit the IOP. I don't know if he is sober or not. Living alone with no accountability no support no drug tests... just not sure. I offered to pay for a recovery coach who drug tests and he would see him once a week and he declined. I am starting to let go. It is what it is. My son doesn't care at all about his family or about how much we have spent on him. My parents helped him with his credit card bills and he has yet to pay them back like he promised - doesn't even attempt to make contact with them. When I look back on everything, I get angry and strong and think "I will not reach out to him. He doesn't give a shi* about us at all" He blocked his sister from social media and called her a horrible name because she wouldn't help him. She despises him as well because of all we have done for him and he doesn't care. [/QUOTE]
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