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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 739448" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>OK if it was me I would continue to support treatment. I wouldnt call and say I wasnt going to pay for treatment. But I would not do any favors for him like call his friends, bring him stuff he needs, give him any kind of spending money etc etc. He is going to want something else... who knows what. And when he does say no, you dont want to sign a release or have me involved so I am not involved. So just back off completely until he signs the release... he is going to want/need something from you at some point. </p><p></p><p>I also think it is important to recognize what makes sense in terms fo the release. He does have the right to some privacy.... so for example what he talks about in therapy he may want to keep private and in my opinion he has that right..... but how he is doing in general in treatment, if he is still there, still participating, what his aftercare plans are all of that should be shared with you. Oh speaking of aftercare.... he is going to need help with after care or rent or something.... give him nothing if he doesnt sign those releases.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 739448, member: 15801"] OK if it was me I would continue to support treatment. I wouldnt call and say I wasnt going to pay for treatment. But I would not do any favors for him like call his friends, bring him stuff he needs, give him any kind of spending money etc etc. He is going to want something else... who knows what. And when he does say no, you dont want to sign a release or have me involved so I am not involved. So just back off completely until he signs the release... he is going to want/need something from you at some point. I also think it is important to recognize what makes sense in terms fo the release. He does have the right to some privacy.... so for example what he talks about in therapy he may want to keep private and in my opinion he has that right..... but how he is doing in general in treatment, if he is still there, still participating, what his aftercare plans are all of that should be shared with you. Oh speaking of aftercare.... he is going to need help with after care or rent or something.... give him nothing if he doesnt sign those releases. TL [/QUOTE]
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