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At my Wits end - sorry I've not been here!
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 712013" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Please get him out of your house and limit contact to public places! This is a very dangerous situation. Either he or someone who is angry with him could easily harm you. </p><p></p><p>You are very right, it is time to limit contact with him, to let him know that you know the truth about what he does and until he changes you cannot have him in your life. The kind of mom who does this is the kind of mom who wants the best for her child. That is right, the kind of mom who does what is right for her child even when it rips her apart inside. You know that only a hard jolt and setting strong boundaries will do anything for your son. You have to set those because you are his mother. It isn't the fun part of being a mom, but it is part of being a mom. You love him more than anything, but you cannot support his actions. Having him in your life is supporting these actions that are just wrong and dangerous. </p><p></p><p>I know it hurts, and you will mourn terribly. It may take a while for this to get through to him. I hate that for you. Your instincts say that it is time to cut contact and they are totally correct, and it does NOT make you a bad mother. It truly does NOT NOT NOT. It makes you the BEST mother because you are willing to do the hardest thing in order to try to save your son's life. He won't see that right now, and he will say the most awful things because he isn't getting what he wants (like any toddler throwing a tantrum).</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 712013, member: 1233"] Please get him out of your house and limit contact to public places! This is a very dangerous situation. Either he or someone who is angry with him could easily harm you. You are very right, it is time to limit contact with him, to let him know that you know the truth about what he does and until he changes you cannot have him in your life. The kind of mom who does this is the kind of mom who wants the best for her child. That is right, the kind of mom who does what is right for her child even when it rips her apart inside. You know that only a hard jolt and setting strong boundaries will do anything for your son. You have to set those because you are his mother. It isn't the fun part of being a mom, but it is part of being a mom. You love him more than anything, but you cannot support his actions. Having him in your life is supporting these actions that are just wrong and dangerous. I know it hurts, and you will mourn terribly. It may take a while for this to get through to him. I hate that for you. Your instincts say that it is time to cut contact and they are totally correct, and it does NOT make you a bad mother. It truly does NOT NOT NOT. It makes you the BEST mother because you are willing to do the hardest thing in order to try to save your son's life. He won't see that right now, and he will say the most awful things because he isn't getting what he wants (like any toddler throwing a tantrum). [/QUOTE]
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