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<blockquote data-quote="WiseChoices" data-source="post: 756585" data-attributes="member: 24254"><p>I would not contact her. The details of how she deals with the boundary you have set see strictly up to her. What happens to the stuff you have bought for her is not your responsibility. Your responsibility is to yourself. Addicts are extremely resourceful - I would not worry about what happens. She will figure something out. Keep in mind that you are HELPING her to help herself (like any adult should) and empowering her to make her own choices. The current situation was keeping her and you sick. </p><p></p><p>I would talk to son without the girlfriend present. I like the idea of having someone else present that is there as a witness for you. I like the idea of talking to a domestic violence organization ahead of time to have a distinct plan on how to do this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WiseChoices, post: 756585, member: 24254"] I would not contact her. The details of how she deals with the boundary you have set see strictly up to her. What happens to the stuff you have bought for her is not your responsibility. Your responsibility is to yourself. Addicts are extremely resourceful - I would not worry about what happens. She will figure something out. Keep in mind that you are HELPING her to help herself (like any adult should) and empowering her to make her own choices. The current situation was keeping her and you sick. I would talk to son without the girlfriend present. I like the idea of having someone else present that is there as a witness for you. I like the idea of talking to a domestic violence organization ahead of time to have a distinct plan on how to do this. [/QUOTE]
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