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<blockquote data-quote="AppleCori" data-source="post: 756592" data-attributes="member: 16024"><p>Hi OV1,</p><p></p><p>You have gotten some great advice!</p><p></p><p>If I were in your situation, I think I would do these things first (in no particular order):</p><p></p><p>#1) Take away daughter’s access to you bank accounts, credit cards, and any other way she has access to you money. This may take some work and time, so you should probably start on it now. Your goal is (if I understand what you are saying) to cut all financial ties and entanglements with her by June. Start now in order to accomplish this.</p><p></p><p>#2) Call the Domestic Violence Hotline and talk to someone there about how to deal with your son and his girlfriend. They will recognize that domestic violence is not just a problem between spouses/significant others, but also happens in other family situations. Since your son is intimidating, threatening, and violent, you need professional advice on how to handle getting him out of your house. He will likely ramp up the threats and violence to keep you from throwing him out. Be ready. You need to make your own safety paramount.</p><p></p><p>#3) I don’t know what your age is, but you might also give the Dept. of Aging & Disability Services a call. They take elder abuse very seriously. </p><p></p><p>#4) Continue to post so we know that you are doing okay. We are worried about your safety.</p><p></p><p>Apple</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AppleCori, post: 756592, member: 16024"] Hi OV1, You have gotten some great advice! If I were in your situation, I think I would do these things first (in no particular order): #1) Take away daughter’s access to you bank accounts, credit cards, and any other way she has access to you money. This may take some work and time, so you should probably start on it now. Your goal is (if I understand what you are saying) to cut all financial ties and entanglements with her by June. Start now in order to accomplish this. #2) Call the Domestic Violence Hotline and talk to someone there about how to deal with your son and his girlfriend. They will recognize that domestic violence is not just a problem between spouses/significant others, but also happens in other family situations. Since your son is intimidating, threatening, and violent, you need professional advice on how to handle getting him out of your house. He will likely ramp up the threats and violence to keep you from throwing him out. Be ready. You need to make your own safety paramount. #3) I don’t know what your age is, but you might also give the Dept. of Aging & Disability Services a call. They take elder abuse very seriously. #4) Continue to post so we know that you are doing okay. We are worried about your safety. Apple [/QUOTE]
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