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<blockquote data-quote="Overwhelmed1" data-source="post: 756650" data-attributes="member: 24921"><p>Busy, I agree I need to do this sooner than later and I don't know why I keep thinking about when is a good time. (actually just realized I was doing that) Contemplating how and when. Not even sure if I'm trying to decide when is a better time for me or him or both. Just writing this makes me realize there is never going to be a good time. It just has to happen.</p><p>Safety is my first concern also. I am not as concerned about physical contact as I am the verbal abuse and him being destructive to property.</p><p>He does get in my face, fists and all, but has never hit me. Not that I don't think sometimes he really wants to be has been able to refrain from doing so. When he was arrested it was because he was out of control and verbal and in my face when the police got to my home.</p><p>His girlfriend bailed him out the next day.</p><p>Now my daughter on the other hand, she has physically attacked me numerous times even when she wasn't living with me. She has also been removed from my home and arrested and had to go through anger management. </p><p>In my mind I believed once the arrests had happened they would know I meant business and would stop their unwanted behavior towards me. I think it made it worse. Probably because I felt so bad I had to take that action, I tried to smooth it over. What an idiot!</p><p>I have really made some bad decision along the way.</p><p>Because of my bad decisions and nothing that I have attempted has worked, I second guess myself all the time. I suppose this is why I am so wishy-washy too. </p><p>This is where this forum is so helpful to me. Getting confirmation on my decisions as well as all the great advise and the understanding of my situation. Plus I can think about how to say what I mean by typing my thoughts instead of just rambling on and possibly making no sense when I am face to face discussing all of this. although I guess I am sort of rambling now.</p><p>On here it is my time with my coffee feeling like I have a friend i am enjoying my coffee with. </p><p>I do appreciate everyone here that has taken the time for me and has brought me from a very dark place just a short time ago. I don't want to ever get to that place again.</p><p></p><p>With all my Love and well wishes for everyone here that has been so helpful, I thank you and hope today is a good one.</p><p></p><p>Peace and Love</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Overwhelmed1, post: 756650, member: 24921"] Busy, I agree I need to do this sooner than later and I don't know why I keep thinking about when is a good time. (actually just realized I was doing that) Contemplating how and when. Not even sure if I'm trying to decide when is a better time for me or him or both. Just writing this makes me realize there is never going to be a good time. It just has to happen. Safety is my first concern also. I am not as concerned about physical contact as I am the verbal abuse and him being destructive to property. He does get in my face, fists and all, but has never hit me. Not that I don't think sometimes he really wants to be has been able to refrain from doing so. When he was arrested it was because he was out of control and verbal and in my face when the police got to my home. His girlfriend bailed him out the next day. Now my daughter on the other hand, she has physically attacked me numerous times even when she wasn't living with me. She has also been removed from my home and arrested and had to go through anger management. In my mind I believed once the arrests had happened they would know I meant business and would stop their unwanted behavior towards me. I think it made it worse. Probably because I felt so bad I had to take that action, I tried to smooth it over. What an idiot! I have really made some bad decision along the way. Because of my bad decisions and nothing that I have attempted has worked, I second guess myself all the time. I suppose this is why I am so wishy-washy too. This is where this forum is so helpful to me. Getting confirmation on my decisions as well as all the great advise and the understanding of my situation. Plus I can think about how to say what I mean by typing my thoughts instead of just rambling on and possibly making no sense when I am face to face discussing all of this. although I guess I am sort of rambling now. On here it is my time with my coffee feeling like I have a friend i am enjoying my coffee with. I do appreciate everyone here that has taken the time for me and has brought me from a very dark place just a short time ago. I don't want to ever get to that place again. With all my Love and well wishes for everyone here that has been so helpful, I thank you and hope today is a good one. Peace and Love [/QUOTE]
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