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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 756655" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Good. If you want to go that route, I would check out what the tenant landlord rules are in your state, for giving notice and follow them, putting it into writing and complying with all steps. I would always lock my door, and get a deadbolt put in. For right now, you can secure the door with a broom or something like that. Just google it. But I will tell you what I really think.</p><p>That alone is enough to get him out now, with a restraining order. I would call the cops NOW. He has a documented history of violence against you and a record of anger management issues. He forced himself into your room against your will, and verbally threatened you, whether or not he spelled it out. The intent was to intimidate and to threaten. If it were me, knowing what I know now, I would call the police NOW and get them out NOW this minute. This will step up. He will escalate. You are a prisoner with him there in the house. This is the time to choose. Every minute you wait you empower him.</p><p></p><p>I would NOT say one word to him. I would engage in no conversation. I would stay in my locked room. If the bathroom is in the hall, I would bring a bucket in my room, rather than go out. I would call the police right now. That is what I would do. Read your thread. Read your own words. Take yourself seriously.</p><p></p><p>Those are my feelings. How much of this can you tolerate? How much of this do you deserve?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 756655, member: 18958"] Good. If you want to go that route, I would check out what the tenant landlord rules are in your state, for giving notice and follow them, putting it into writing and complying with all steps. I would always lock my door, and get a deadbolt put in. For right now, you can secure the door with a broom or something like that. Just google it. But I will tell you what I really think. That alone is enough to get him out now, with a restraining order. I would call the cops NOW. He has a documented history of violence against you and a record of anger management issues. He forced himself into your room against your will, and verbally threatened you, whether or not he spelled it out. The intent was to intimidate and to threaten. If it were me, knowing what I know now, I would call the police NOW and get them out NOW this minute. This will step up. He will escalate. You are a prisoner with him there in the house. This is the time to choose. Every minute you wait you empower him. I would NOT say one word to him. I would engage in no conversation. I would stay in my locked room. If the bathroom is in the hall, I would bring a bucket in my room, rather than go out. I would call the police right now. That is what I would do. Read your thread. Read your own words. Take yourself seriously. Those are my feelings. How much of this can you tolerate? How much of this do you deserve? [/QUOTE]
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