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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 756661" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Is there somebody you trust that you can call while you are entering the house? That would make everything your son and his girlfriend say or do public. I recognize that you feel hesitant to involve anybody else that knows you. The thing is, by keeping this private, you help to perpetuate the danger for yourself, and empower your son to abuse you. Does your room have a private entrance so that you can enter it, without going through the house? That way you could have a minute or so advance notice to call the police. If he accosts you immediately, I mean, even verbally, how will you have time to retreat to call the police?</p><p></p><p>I am worried about right now. I am also worried about ongoing. Your worries were real. Based upon reality. Have you given them a move out date, in writing? I'm as worried about the emotional cost of living with these people, and how they will escalate against you, through psychological warfare.</p><p></p><p>I agree with Apple, having a clear cut boundary in place now, in advance, is essential. Make an agreement with yourself to call the police if there is any yelling at you, threats, or damage. And agree with yourself to follow through. That's what I think.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 756661, member: 18958"] Is there somebody you trust that you can call while you are entering the house? That would make everything your son and his girlfriend say or do public. I recognize that you feel hesitant to involve anybody else that knows you. The thing is, by keeping this private, you help to perpetuate the danger for yourself, and empower your son to abuse you. Does your room have a private entrance so that you can enter it, without going through the house? That way you could have a minute or so advance notice to call the police. If he accosts you immediately, I mean, even verbally, how will you have time to retreat to call the police? I am worried about right now. I am also worried about ongoing. Your worries were real. Based upon reality. Have you given them a move out date, in writing? I'm as worried about the emotional cost of living with these people, and how they will escalate against you, through psychological warfare. I agree with Apple, having a clear cut boundary in place now, in advance, is essential. Make an agreement with yourself to call the police if there is any yelling at you, threats, or damage. And agree with yourself to follow through. That's what I think. [/QUOTE]
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