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<blockquote data-quote="Overwhelmed1" data-source="post: 756808" data-attributes="member: 24921"><p>At a stand still. Son and girlfriend behaving, staying out of my way and speaking nice when they do speak to me. No, it isn't changing my mind but making it harder to get them out. I didn't get to call anyone Friday to ask how I could go about getting them out quickly. It is hard to do while I am working. I work this coming week but the following week I am off all week, maybe then. I am not in a good place this weekend to discuss with them. My brain is tired.</p><p></p><p>No word from my daughter. I paid her rent for this month and sent a message to the apartment manager that I would not be renewing the lease in June. She will have to move by the end of May. I am worried about my grandchildren. I just can't help myself. God, I love them so much!</p><p></p><p>I went out shopping for food today, had to, was running out of food. I haven't went grocery shopping in about three weeks. I did take good care not to get close to people and there wasn't that many people n the store. Now I will be home bound for awhile, again.....</p><p></p><p>I splurged and got all my favorite toiletries. I have been using bar soap and the cheapest shampoo etc. I could buy for the last 2 years. I couldn't afford anything else while sending my daughter cash and paying all her bills.</p><p></p><p>It was bitter sweet. My grandsons birthday is this month but I dare not send him anything. Every holiday or birthday for the last few years have been so stressful. My daughter would tell me " the kids need a nice Christmas this year since we are in a bigger place now or we need to make their birthdays special this year."</p><p> </p><p>I brought decorations from my home, bought them a tree and as many presents as I could, even for my daughter. Took a week off and spent it with them. The day after Christmas, I gave my daughter some money. She exploded! it wasn't the usual amount. She proceeds to say " why did you spend so much money on unimportant stuff. You knew we needed money more"</p><p>She did the same thing the year before and on each of their birthdays. I know I can't send him anything and it hurts.</p><p></p><p>I was suppose to feel good doing something for myself, but it isn't feeling so great right now. </p><p></p><p>My son and his girlfriend bought pizza again, she walks by and opens the box, looks inside then shuts it. She then looked over at me with this glare of a look. No I haven't eaten any of your pizza. But they will not say a word. Being cool and conniving. </p><p></p><p>Just a little set back. I will do better tomorrow..... I pray I will anyway.</p><p></p><p>I hope everyone had a good day and will have a peaceful night.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Overwhelmed1, post: 756808, member: 24921"] At a stand still. Son and girlfriend behaving, staying out of my way and speaking nice when they do speak to me. No, it isn't changing my mind but making it harder to get them out. I didn't get to call anyone Friday to ask how I could go about getting them out quickly. It is hard to do while I am working. I work this coming week but the following week I am off all week, maybe then. I am not in a good place this weekend to discuss with them. My brain is tired. No word from my daughter. I paid her rent for this month and sent a message to the apartment manager that I would not be renewing the lease in June. She will have to move by the end of May. I am worried about my grandchildren. I just can't help myself. God, I love them so much! I went out shopping for food today, had to, was running out of food. I haven't went grocery shopping in about three weeks. I did take good care not to get close to people and there wasn't that many people n the store. Now I will be home bound for awhile, again..... I splurged and got all my favorite toiletries. I have been using bar soap and the cheapest shampoo etc. I could buy for the last 2 years. I couldn't afford anything else while sending my daughter cash and paying all her bills. It was bitter sweet. My grandsons birthday is this month but I dare not send him anything. Every holiday or birthday for the last few years have been so stressful. My daughter would tell me " the kids need a nice Christmas this year since we are in a bigger place now or we need to make their birthdays special this year." I brought decorations from my home, bought them a tree and as many presents as I could, even for my daughter. Took a week off and spent it with them. The day after Christmas, I gave my daughter some money. She exploded! it wasn't the usual amount. She proceeds to say " why did you spend so much money on unimportant stuff. You knew we needed money more" She did the same thing the year before and on each of their birthdays. I know I can't send him anything and it hurts. I was suppose to feel good doing something for myself, but it isn't feeling so great right now. My son and his girlfriend bought pizza again, she walks by and opens the box, looks inside then shuts it. She then looked over at me with this glare of a look. No I haven't eaten any of your pizza. But they will not say a word. Being cool and conniving. Just a little set back. I will do better tomorrow..... I pray I will anyway. I hope everyone had a good day and will have a peaceful night. [/QUOTE]
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