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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 757713" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Hi OW. I am happy for you that things are going better with your kids, and that you feel more control and worthy in your life. I want to say only one thing. I don't agree with your decision to not post here because you feel you don't have much to offer. This is untrue. But more than this, by this outlook you deprive yourself of what I consider the most powerful way to heal, know yourself and grow in strength. We develop as we post. Posting builds muscle in the same way that does physical exercise. By responding to others you begin to know your own voice. Even writing your own doubts and insecurities helps, to identify them and to overcome them, and put them in the past. </p><p></p><p>We need you OW. You have great compassion and heart. That is rare in this world. </p><p></p><p>In my own case in the first couple of years I was here I posted sometimes 25 times a day. I can't believe I did that but I did. I was not as quick a learner as are you. It took me years before I could put into place the necessary boundaries with my son, in my own head, and in my life.</p><p></p><p>I look forward to your posts, OW. We need in this life to strengthen our voice, and to put it out there. Our voice is necessary for our empowerment. Through our voice we empower others. I think you understand that. We need your voice.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 757713, member: 18958"] Hi OW. I am happy for you that things are going better with your kids, and that you feel more control and worthy in your life. I want to say only one thing. I don't agree with your decision to not post here because you feel you don't have much to offer. This is untrue. But more than this, by this outlook you deprive yourself of what I consider the most powerful way to heal, know yourself and grow in strength. We develop as we post. Posting builds muscle in the same way that does physical exercise. By responding to others you begin to know your own voice. Even writing your own doubts and insecurities helps, to identify them and to overcome them, and put them in the past. We need you OW. You have great compassion and heart. That is rare in this world. In my own case in the first couple of years I was here I posted sometimes 25 times a day. I can't believe I did that but I did. I was not as quick a learner as are you. It took me years before I could put into place the necessary boundaries with my son, in my own head, and in my life. I look forward to your posts, OW. We need in this life to strengthen our voice, and to put it out there. Our voice is necessary for our empowerment. Through our voice we empower others. I think you understand that. We need your voice. [/QUOTE]
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