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<blockquote data-quote="B’smom" data-source="post: 740090" data-attributes="member: 23359"><p>You bring up a good point. While talking to his mental health worker, I brought up my fear of CPS potentially affect my employment. She said she’d stand by me if that ever happens as she’s been to all the meetings and my multiple requests for help because of B’s behaviours towards LO. I’m hoping what saves me possibly is if it does come to that, is that I have always been honest with any and all professionals that we’ve worked with. The school and the wrap team have been notified. Even his psychiatrist is aware that he’s physical assaulted LO. His exact response to the black eye he gave LO was “I’m shocked the childcare hasn’t called CPS”. I explained that I worked there and they knew it wasn’t me or J causing the injuries. </p><p></p><p></p><p>I’ve explained how I have to shower while LO is in the washroom (but not in the shower with me) to ensure he’s safe. Although I do wonder how long I can get away with that before someone deems that inappropriate. Especially considering we aren’t the same gender. But it’s what I have had to do to ensure everyone is safe since I still have to get ready for work. </p><p></p><p>J and I have talked about our relationship. He’s suggested he get counselling and that perhaps it would be a good idea that we attend marriage counselling to help us. As much as he might suck sometimes, I really am lucky to have him. I do believe he loves as much as anyone could and the fact that he’s willing to seek help, helps me know he’s committed. Maybe I can find some time for myself and get help for me too. We both have a day off this week together, our GP has a walk in counselling sessions. Hoping we can go together and maybe work some things out. </p><p>I think he’s finally starting to truly see how this is affecting everyone in our family, both individually and as a whole. Guess time will tell. It complicated, as most relationships are.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="B’smom, post: 740090, member: 23359"] You bring up a good point. While talking to his mental health worker, I brought up my fear of CPS potentially affect my employment. She said she’d stand by me if that ever happens as she’s been to all the meetings and my multiple requests for help because of B’s behaviours towards LO. I’m hoping what saves me possibly is if it does come to that, is that I have always been honest with any and all professionals that we’ve worked with. The school and the wrap team have been notified. Even his psychiatrist is aware that he’s physical assaulted LO. His exact response to the black eye he gave LO was “I’m shocked the childcare hasn’t called CPS”. I explained that I worked there and they knew it wasn’t me or J causing the injuries. I’ve explained how I have to shower while LO is in the washroom (but not in the shower with me) to ensure he’s safe. Although I do wonder how long I can get away with that before someone deems that inappropriate. Especially considering we aren’t the same gender. But it’s what I have had to do to ensure everyone is safe since I still have to get ready for work. J and I have talked about our relationship. He’s suggested he get counselling and that perhaps it would be a good idea that we attend marriage counselling to help us. As much as he might suck sometimes, I really am lucky to have him. I do believe he loves as much as anyone could and the fact that he’s willing to seek help, helps me know he’s committed. Maybe I can find some time for myself and get help for me too. We both have a day off this week together, our GP has a walk in counselling sessions. Hoping we can go together and maybe work some things out. I think he’s finally starting to truly see how this is affecting everyone in our family, both individually and as a whole. Guess time will tell. It complicated, as most relationships are. [/QUOTE]
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