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<blockquote data-quote="Kayla Marie" data-source="post: 681839" data-attributes="member: 20153"><p>Hey love personally, I feel you have done the mothering any mother can do! You and your hubby both! You've set ground rules, set down basics and he needs to understand them, he needs to be an adult. If he needs help, okay but you are not the one even as the parent to play the rescuer. That doesn't mean you can't help him look for a place to live though--a roomate that doesn't mean you are completely cutting him off you are saying "Hey I am paying for your tuition, I love you but clearly you need your own place to live, we can look together for either a small studio apartment for you or a roomate and maybe it's time you look into some N.A or A.A meetings I love you but you are your own person and I'm here 100% for you but I do not support this behavior that we both no isn't helping you, it's hurting you." It's only normal for you to feel guilty, any parent would but, you're doing the right thing. He put himself in this mess it's his job to get himself out of it and if you want you can offer him guidance but that's all. ❤</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kayla Marie, post: 681839, member: 20153"] Hey love personally, I feel you have done the mothering any mother can do! You and your hubby both! You've set ground rules, set down basics and he needs to understand them, he needs to be an adult. If he needs help, okay but you are not the one even as the parent to play the rescuer. That doesn't mean you can't help him look for a place to live though--a roomate that doesn't mean you are completely cutting him off you are saying "Hey I am paying for your tuition, I love you but clearly you need your own place to live, we can look together for either a small studio apartment for you or a roomate and maybe it's time you look into some N.A or A.A meetings I love you but you are your own person and I'm here 100% for you but I do not support this behavior that we both no isn't helping you, it's hurting you." It's only normal for you to feel guilty, any parent would but, you're doing the right thing. He put himself in this mess it's his job to get himself out of it and if you want you can offer him guidance but that's all. ❤ [/QUOTE]
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