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<blockquote data-quote="ANewLife4Me" data-source="post: 765517" data-attributes="member: 32799">Hello bluebell am new here, nice to meet you. Am so very sorry this has happened yet again but so thankful your husband did not attack back. We live in Florida, my daughter cannot bail herself out of jail. We have to go to a bail bondsman who usually is in a different location than the jail itself. Depending on previous jail time and the magnitude of this new charge he may/may not get bail. Your safety and your family’s is of utmost importance and I would seek a trespass and restraining order against him immediately. Should you care?&nbsp; Of course you do because you love him with everything you have. <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="🤗" title="Hugging face&nbsp; &nbsp; :hugging:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f917.png" data-shortname=":hugging:" /> But he made the decision to drink and allowed the violence to come out because of. Your dealing with breast cancer is bad enough, in a fight for your life!&nbsp; I would let him stay in jail with no money on his books, no phone money and let him sober up to the reality of what he has caused. If for any reason he should get bail, I don’t know how as you said he has no one, would never - ever let him back in your home again!&nbsp; It comes down to your life….or his? When my daughter gets into blackout periods when drinking she has no idea what she did at the time. I fear her killing us one day and it’s why when she gets out of jail this time, will not be coming back to live with us. Mine and your family safety is so important no matter how much we love them. Like your son, I too had gotten my daughter doing well in her life, yet again, and she threw it all away by leaving our house one night to live in her car, only went downhill from there. You have to be strong, for yourself and your family. <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="❤️" title="Red heart&nbsp; &nbsp; :heart:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/2764.png" data-shortname=":heart:" /></blockquote>

[QUOTE="ANewLife4Me, post: 765517, member: 32799"] Hello bluebell am new here, nice to meet you. Am so very sorry this has happened yet again but so thankful your husband did not attack back. We live in Florida, my daughter cannot bail herself out of jail. We have to go to a bail bondsman who usually is in a different location than the jail itself. Depending on previous jail time and the magnitude of this new charge he may/may not get bail. Your safety and your family’s is of utmost importance and I would seek a trespass and restraining order against him immediately. Should you care? Of course you do because you love him with everything you have. 🤗 But he made the decision to drink and allowed the violence to come out because of. Your dealing with breast cancer is bad enough, in a fight for your life! I would let him stay in jail with no money on his books, no phone money and let him sober up to the reality of what he has caused. If for any reason he should get bail, I don’t know how as you said he has no one, would never - ever let him back in your home again! It comes down to your life….or his? When my daughter gets into blackout periods when drinking she has no idea what she did at the time. I fear her killing us one day and it’s why when she gets out of jail this time, will not be coming back to live with us. Mine and your family safety is so important no matter how much we love them. Like your son, I too had gotten my daughter doing well in her life, yet again, and she threw it all away by leaving our house one night to live in her car, only went downhill from there. You have to be strong, for yourself and your family. ❤️ [/QUOTE]

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