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<blockquote data-quote="bluebell" data-source="post: 765764" data-attributes="member: 16761"><p>Just an update, my son was hounding me about the charges he received thru texts, what was going to happen him, etc. I told him to get a lawyer. He said he couldn't afford one. He's living with someone and still working (amazingly), so I told him he needs to call one and see what they charge (how would I know?). So he did and he's been put on a payment plan. This is so hard, it's not like his other charges that were DWI or drug related, these are ones where me and my family are the victims! My instinct is to help him, but I'm not sure I'm the right person to do this, it seems duplicitous. And I feel like I have to stay angry with him to keep myself from swooping in, but the anger is not good for my health. I just don't know what to do, and I'm sure the next crisis is right around the corner.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bluebell, post: 765764, member: 16761"] Just an update, my son was hounding me about the charges he received thru texts, what was going to happen him, etc. I told him to get a lawyer. He said he couldn't afford one. He's living with someone and still working (amazingly), so I told him he needs to call one and see what they charge (how would I know?). So he did and he's been put on a payment plan. This is so hard, it's not like his other charges that were DWI or drug related, these are ones where me and my family are the victims! My instinct is to help him, but I'm not sure I'm the right person to do this, it seems duplicitous. And I feel like I have to stay angry with him to keep myself from swooping in, but the anger is not good for my health. I just don't know what to do, and I'm sure the next crisis is right around the corner. [/QUOTE]
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