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<blockquote data-quote="katya02" data-source="post: 766614" data-attributes="member: 2884"><p>Very, very helpful Copa, thank you. I have conveyed this to my husband. He has already offered to bring our son for the next week, but he agrees to stipulate conditions that a) my son may not bring his wallet or driver’s license, b) he may not bring his phone, and c) he may not pressure/bully our disabled son who lives with us into buying alcohol for him. Just the first two of these conditions will result in our son refusing to come. He will definitely want to get alcohol while here, and lack of a phone and ID will prevent that. So that will mean he stays in his own city and his husband will have to care for him. He will be able to get alcohol there, but it seems like carrying water in a sieve to try to prevent it. If he has a complete change of heart and wants inpatient treatment then he won’t be trying to get alcohol. But that’s unlikely. So I will take care of my husband and leave responsibility for my son’s health choices with him.</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="katya02, post: 766614, member: 2884"] Very, very helpful Copa, thank you. I have conveyed this to my husband. He has already offered to bring our son for the next week, but he agrees to stipulate conditions that a) my son may not bring his wallet or driver’s license, b) he may not bring his phone, and c) he may not pressure/bully our disabled son who lives with us into buying alcohol for him. Just the first two of these conditions will result in our son refusing to come. He will definitely want to get alcohol while here, and lack of a phone and ID will prevent that. So that will mean he stays in his own city and his husband will have to care for him. He will be able to get alcohol there, but it seems like carrying water in a sieve to try to prevent it. If he has a complete change of heart and wants inpatient treatment then he won’t be trying to get alcohol. But that’s unlikely. So I will take care of my husband and leave responsibility for my son’s health choices with him. [/QUOTE]

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