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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 742755" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>He is 32, not 12. Approaching middle age. Although he has kids , he apparently doesnt work enough to support them. Who does? Mom? She must love this.</p><p></p><p>There is nothing cold about telling a grown 32 year old man to leave, get a full time job, and grow up. We are not supposed to house snd pay their bills forever. Or their kids. If we do they stay immature.</p><p></p><p>It is up to you but he to me is the cold one to expect aging parents, who have worked hard all their lives, to still be Mommy and Daddy. Unless he is physically or mentally unable to work there is a full time job he can do, like his peers. Living in a room is fine if he doesnt want to work hard enough to get a better place.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry for your sad situation. I hope it works out...but that is largely up to him and what you will tolerate in your home.</p><p></p><p>I would NOT allow him in your house unsupervised while tou travel. Let him find some couches to sleep on. Our kids are good at couch surfing. There are also homeless shelters.</p><p></p><p>Remember, your well being matters as much as his. Be good to YOU!</p><p></p><p>Love and light!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 742755, member: 1550"] He is 32, not 12. Approaching middle age. Although he has kids , he apparently doesnt work enough to support them. Who does? Mom? She must love this. There is nothing cold about telling a grown 32 year old man to leave, get a full time job, and grow up. We are not supposed to house snd pay their bills forever. Or their kids. If we do they stay immature. It is up to you but he to me is the cold one to expect aging parents, who have worked hard all their lives, to still be Mommy and Daddy. Unless he is physically or mentally unable to work there is a full time job he can do, like his peers. Living in a room is fine if he doesnt want to work hard enough to get a better place. I am sorry for your sad situation. I hope it works out...but that is largely up to him and what you will tolerate in your home. I would NOT allow him in your house unsupervised while tou travel. Let him find some couches to sleep on. Our kids are good at couch surfing. There are also homeless shelters. Remember, your well being matters as much as his. Be good to YOU! Love and light!!!! [/QUOTE]
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