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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 742897" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I couldnt agree more with Tania. I personally would not go too far to help an adult kid who screwed up. I dont think it works and I dont see difficult kids as being there for us if we are living in our motor home or van. They tend to be selfish and not care all that much about our welfare. Most are happy to bleed us dry for their desires...few get on their feet because we give them our money. I know of one woman who lost her home because of her adult childs drugging and other stuff in her house. The woman, a widow, was charged with crimes too that she didnt know were going on under her roof. She is 77 now. Guess how oftlen her daughter visits her and how often she lets her see her granddaughter who she once cared for? She is now living with her sister. This is heinous in my opinion. Why is her daughter so mad? Because due to the nonsense in her mothers house the boyfriend of hers who also lived there is in jail. Or was</p><p></p><p></p><p>Tough love doesnt help many, even most adults who are off the rails. Its for us as well as hopefully them.</p><p></p><p>But it worked in less than a year for my precious daughter. She is doing great as is my grandchild.</p><p></p><p>Some adults do as little as they have to.</p><p></p><p>I believe we need to think of oursrlves top and just pray a lot.</p><p></p><p>Love and light!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 742897, member: 1550"] I couldnt agree more with Tania. I personally would not go too far to help an adult kid who screwed up. I dont think it works and I dont see difficult kids as being there for us if we are living in our motor home or van. They tend to be selfish and not care all that much about our welfare. Most are happy to bleed us dry for their desires...few get on their feet because we give them our money. I know of one woman who lost her home because of her adult childs drugging and other stuff in her house. The woman, a widow, was charged with crimes too that she didnt know were going on under her roof. She is 77 now. Guess how oftlen her daughter visits her and how often she lets her see her granddaughter who she once cared for? She is now living with her sister. This is heinous in my opinion. Why is her daughter so mad? Because due to the nonsense in her mothers house the boyfriend of hers who also lived there is in jail. Or was Tough love doesnt help many, even most adults who are off the rails. Its for us as well as hopefully them. But it worked in less than a year for my precious daughter. She is doing great as is my grandchild. Some adults do as little as they have to. I believe we need to think of oursrlves top and just pray a lot. Love and light! [/QUOTE]
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