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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 138977" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>(((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))</p><p></p><p>Heather hit the nail on the head.</p><p></p><p>"no longer drinking" does not necessarily mean "sober". Sober is a state of mind. Sober is taking responsibility for all the hurt that you have caused the ones you love. S2BX is not sober. I would hope that with a few months still in rehab, someone would catch on to him and call him on his cr@p. One of his steps in indeed making amends. Don't hold your breath.</p><p></p><p>Have you gone to AlAnon? You are taking on WAY too much guilt, and you have nothing to feel guilty for. I know you have your kids' issues to deal with, but you cannot effectively deal with them if you are not cared for properly. Take some time to nurture yourself. You will be all the better for it.</p><p></p><p>As far as the kids go, I strongly believe that a lot of what they are going through has to do with what a putz their father ended up being. They have a lot to work through too. I am so sorry that this is so hard for you. </p><p></p><p>You have come so far. You are not the gal you were when you first came to the boards. </p><p></p><p>Stay awhile.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 138977, member: 3647"] (((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))) Heather hit the nail on the head. "no longer drinking" does not necessarily mean "sober". Sober is a state of mind. Sober is taking responsibility for all the hurt that you have caused the ones you love. S2BX is not sober. I would hope that with a few months still in rehab, someone would catch on to him and call him on his cr@p. One of his steps in indeed making amends. Don't hold your breath. Have you gone to AlAnon? You are taking on WAY too much guilt, and you have nothing to feel guilty for. I know you have your kids' issues to deal with, but you cannot effectively deal with them if you are not cared for properly. Take some time to nurture yourself. You will be all the better for it. As far as the kids go, I strongly believe that a lot of what they are going through has to do with what a putz their father ended up being. They have a lot to work through too. I am so sorry that this is so hard for you. You have come so far. You are not the gal you were when you first came to the boards. Stay awhile. [/QUOTE]
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