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BDP daughter wants to her & I to go family therapy
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 661995" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Let go of her. For you.</p><p></p><p>I don't mean to be harsh but I am going to speak plain.</p><p></p><p>This is not your only child and you have other grand kids. We adopted a six year old, now 37, who has not seen or spoken to me in almost ten years. Over my dead and buried body would I ever have given up the love of my husband, my four other kids and my two grands because one child is rejecting me. I wish things had turned out better with this son but my other kids deserve a happy mother. My husband deserves a loving wife. My grandkids deserve to be spoiled, even though the child who doesn't see me has two kids I have never even seen. I refuse to punish everyone else because of him. I won't punish myself either. You are not seeing your life's possibilities and for that I feel sorry for y out and hope you get help.</p><p></p><p>To throw away everyone for this abusive daughter makes no sense. Some people here only have one child and they are still living good lives. You can get help for yourself and focus on living a good life or you can let this daughter destroy you. The choice is yours.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 661995, member: 1550"] Let go of her. For you. I don't mean to be harsh but I am going to speak plain. This is not your only child and you have other grand kids. We adopted a six year old, now 37, who has not seen or spoken to me in almost ten years. Over my dead and buried body would I ever have given up the love of my husband, my four other kids and my two grands because one child is rejecting me. I wish things had turned out better with this son but my other kids deserve a happy mother. My husband deserves a loving wife. My grandkids deserve to be spoiled, even though the child who doesn't see me has two kids I have never even seen. I refuse to punish everyone else because of him. I won't punish myself either. You are not seeing your life's possibilities and for that I feel sorry for y out and hope you get help. To throw away everyone for this abusive daughter makes no sense. Some people here only have one child and they are still living good lives. You can get help for yourself and focus on living a good life or you can let this daughter destroy you. The choice is yours. [/QUOTE]
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