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BDP daughter wants to her & I to go family therapy
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<blockquote data-quote="Lioness" data-source="post: 662005" data-attributes="member: 18827"><p>SWOT I have no other Grandchildren only the one! She is my one and only so far. I know that you may seem hard on me but I need it. The truth hurts but it is what it is. I know you are coming from a good place. Iam lucky to have two other wonderful adult kids, a good husband, friends and a job working with pre schoolers. I know I complain too much. I don't express myself to my family as I don't want what I say being reported back to my diff daughter. I just need to come to terms with this but am finding it difficult. I probably need professional help to value myself a little more. Rejection is a constant theme in my life : my mum, dad, husband and now daughter. Even my sister is cold and indifferent another product of my crappy childhood. She lives 10 minutes down the road but I haven't seen nor heard from her since april. I always have to call her so this time I haven't bothered as I have all the drama with my daughter. I am there for my family and friends all the time Iam Mrs Reliable. In fact that was the only positive thing my daughter had to say about me in therapy that I was always there for her and reliable. I don't show my pain to anyone except this forum and my husband. The truth is Iam embarassed and ashamed. Motherhood is The only job I ever wanted to succeed in and I turned out a big fat failure.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lioness, post: 662005, member: 18827"] SWOT I have no other Grandchildren only the one! She is my one and only so far. I know that you may seem hard on me but I need it. The truth hurts but it is what it is. I know you are coming from a good place. Iam lucky to have two other wonderful adult kids, a good husband, friends and a job working with pre schoolers. I know I complain too much. I don't express myself to my family as I don't want what I say being reported back to my diff daughter. I just need to come to terms with this but am finding it difficult. I probably need professional help to value myself a little more. Rejection is a constant theme in my life : my mum, dad, husband and now daughter. Even my sister is cold and indifferent another product of my crappy childhood. She lives 10 minutes down the road but I haven't seen nor heard from her since april. I always have to call her so this time I haven't bothered as I have all the drama with my daughter. I am there for my family and friends all the time Iam Mrs Reliable. In fact that was the only positive thing my daughter had to say about me in therapy that I was always there for her and reliable. I don't show my pain to anyone except this forum and my husband. The truth is Iam embarassed and ashamed. Motherhood is The only job I ever wanted to succeed in and I turned out a big fat failure. [/QUOTE]
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