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BDP daughter wants to her & I to go family therapy
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 662049" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Lioness (hear you roar...hehe), there are free mental health clinics in every county of the country, I believe. Be nice to yourself and make an appointment. at yours. I thought they had the worst therapists or why would they work there, but I did go and found two AWESOME therapists who really, really helped me. Don't wait. Your other kids will be targets eventually and sadly. Be nice to them and anyone who returns the love your big, big heart has to give. Your other daughter still needs a babysitter and trust me if you play "hard to get" she will call you more with offers to see granddaughter. She can't afford a nanny. That's just more of her magical thinking.</p><p></p><p>The more she thinks she can hurt you, the more she will continue this. Act cool and calm, pleasant and distant, and she will panic that you are suddenly really leaving her and, if she is borderline, she will freak out and see you more, after the predictable tantrum about how you don't love her anymore.</p><p></p><p>You have come too far to let her destroy you. You are too worthy a person to be destroyed by anyone, even a beloved adult child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 662049, member: 1550"] Lioness (hear you roar...hehe), there are free mental health clinics in every county of the country, I believe. Be nice to yourself and make an appointment. at yours. I thought they had the worst therapists or why would they work there, but I did go and found two AWESOME therapists who really, really helped me. Don't wait. Your other kids will be targets eventually and sadly. Be nice to them and anyone who returns the love your big, big heart has to give. Your other daughter still needs a babysitter and trust me if you play "hard to get" she will call you more with offers to see granddaughter. She can't afford a nanny. That's just more of her magical thinking. The more she thinks she can hurt you, the more she will continue this. Act cool and calm, pleasant and distant, and she will panic that you are suddenly really leaving her and, if she is borderline, she will freak out and see you more, after the predictable tantrum about how you don't love her anymore. You have come too far to let her destroy you. You are too worthy a person to be destroyed by anyone, even a beloved adult child. [/QUOTE]
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