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BDP daughter wants to her & I to go family therapy
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 662112" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>That is exactly what I mean, SWOT. Lioness is permitting herself to be destroyed, if she keeps in this same space with her daughter.</p><p></p><p>I do not mean that she submit herself to her daughter to be hurt. I mean rising above the current situation in her own heart. And accepting that she has no control.</p><p></p><p>Her daughter has suffered, too. Being manipulated by her father as a pawn, sacrificed by him to his own interests. She is a victim, too.</p><p></p><p>The last thing I am saying is for Lioness to submit.</p><p></p><p>Lioness, you are the strong one, the adult in the room, the moral force in the family, as the Mother. Take that road, irrespective, of your angry, hurt feelings.</p><p></p><p>Choose for good. It is in you. Let the bitterness and anger go. For the sake of yourself and your children. Love is always there. Hidden. I am not saying you are wrong. What I am saying is before everything you are her Mother. To me that means everything.</p><p></p><p>Your daughter is wrong. You will not change her. But do not allow yourself to go to her level. You are better than this.</p><p></p><p>SWOT, I think we agree more than disagree. At least, I agree with you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 662112, member: 18958"] That is exactly what I mean, SWOT. Lioness is permitting herself to be destroyed, if she keeps in this same space with her daughter. I do not mean that she submit herself to her daughter to be hurt. I mean rising above the current situation in her own heart. And accepting that she has no control. Her daughter has suffered, too. Being manipulated by her father as a pawn, sacrificed by him to his own interests. She is a victim, too. The last thing I am saying is for Lioness to submit. Lioness, you are the strong one, the adult in the room, the moral force in the family, as the Mother. Take that road, irrespective, of your angry, hurt feelings. Choose for good. It is in you. Let the bitterness and anger go. For the sake of yourself and your children. Love is always there. Hidden. I am not saying you are wrong. What I am saying is before everything you are her Mother. To me that means everything. Your daughter is wrong. You will not change her. But do not allow yourself to go to her level. You are better than this. SWOT, I think we agree more than disagree. At least, I agree with you. [/QUOTE]
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