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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 181538" data-attributes="member: 1514">I think I have come to that place in life where I love him but I dont like him.&nbsp; If he turned around...or ever turns around...well that would be nice.&nbsp; I dont trust him as far as I can throw him.&nbsp; I probably never will.&nbsp; I cannot control him at all and I have invested far too much time in trying.&nbsp; He is what he is and he will do what he is going to do.&nbsp; He actually thinks what he does is what anyone would do and cant get it through his head that it isnt.&nbsp; I tried to tell him when he told me that if I had been on house arrest I would have taken the opportunity to leave too...that no I wouldnt.&nbsp; I would follow the rules because I dont like cages.&nbsp; They wouldnt have even needed to put a monitor on me because I wouldnt have left the house.&nbsp; Oh well...Im not the one with jail hanging over me.&nbsp; Im fine with it.&nbsp; Interesting side note.&nbsp; He has this probation thingy today and because somehow his SSI supposedly got messed up for this month (which I am not completely sure it did) Mandy was supposed to cover his probation fees this month.&nbsp; He has covered rent and other stuff for both of them for months now and this month the only thing he asked her to help him with was his rent and phone bill.&nbsp; Well...this morning suddenly the money for his probation fee was &quot;lost or stolen&quot; from them.&nbsp; She has been on a spending spree the past couple of days buying clothes, items for her car...etc.&nbsp; She doesnt make that much money working part time.&nbsp; Now the $55 he needed is gone.&nbsp; He basically accused all of us of stealing it.&nbsp; None of us here steal.&nbsp; He is the thief in the family.&nbsp; I think she just decided she wasnt going to give him that money.&nbsp; Oh well.&nbsp; Not my problem.&nbsp; I just sighed and turned back over in my bed when he burst through my door to accuse me, my dog, and the rest of us of this misdeed.&nbsp; I said...Interesting.&nbsp; LOL.Like I said...Im not expecting him to come home today.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 181538, member: 1514"] I think I have come to that place in life where I love him but I dont like him. If he turned around...or ever turns around...well that would be nice. I dont trust him as far as I can throw him. I probably never will. I cannot control him at all and I have invested far too much time in trying. He is what he is and he will do what he is going to do. He actually thinks what he does is what anyone would do and cant get it through his head that it isnt. I tried to tell him when he told me that if I had been on house arrest I would have taken the opportunity to leave too...that no I wouldnt. I would follow the rules because I dont like cages. They wouldnt have even needed to put a monitor on me because I wouldnt have left the house. Oh well...Im not the one with jail hanging over me. Im fine with it. Interesting side note. He has this probation thingy today and because somehow his SSI supposedly got messed up for this month (which I am not completely sure it did) Mandy was supposed to cover his probation fees this month. He has covered rent and other stuff for both of them for months now and this month the only thing he asked her to help him with was his rent and phone bill. Well...this morning suddenly the money for his probation fee was "lost or stolen" from them. She has been on a spending spree the past couple of days buying clothes, items for her car...etc. She doesnt make that much money working part time. Now the $55 he needed is gone. He basically accused all of us of stealing it. None of us here steal. He is the thief in the family. I think she just decided she wasnt going to give him that money. Oh well. Not my problem. I just sighed and turned back over in my bed when he burst through my door to accuse me, my dog, and the rest of us of this misdeed. I said...Interesting. LOL. Like I said...Im not expecting him to come home today. [/QUOTE]

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