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<blockquote data-quote="Drew64" data-source="post: 740022" data-attributes="member: 18676"><p>Well I didn’t ask her. She was mad cutting up my wife’s stuff. That’s the reason. Today took her to have hair looked girl was great and gave her options. Cut it a little shorter or use clip on extensions. Both were no answers. I left it at that for now. Later took her to dentist appointment. She hasent brushed her teeth in a while. I gave up on asking. Two cavities for which go back in 2 weeks. She said she didn’t care. She likes her miserable life. Again I offered her support and told her what mom did was horrible but you can’t live like she is. Got home and she went right up to computer to play. She doesent want to go to classes now until her hair grows back. I have to laugh because that’s going to take a year. I will have to see about maybe having her just take an art class since graphic arts is her interest. Maybe they can move her to the daytime one. Or she can just do the night one. That I have to speak to my wife about amd daughter. At least it would get her out of the house and maybe find someone with similar interests. I was hoping she would join a club. They have like 100 of them. My feeling is now if she’s not going to class or working than she has to go to therapy at least once a week or no laptop. It’s to fill you in I was talking to my aunt about things and she reminded me my daughter threw tantrums when she was young too. But this came to a head when her best friend was out of school because she started self mutilating. At the time we didn’t know it we thought she was just in hospital for an illness or something. Later found out that was why. She missed two years of school amd supossedly an e mail that got out from someone blamed my daughter for her doing this. Then sophomore year in high school the year this friend came back my daughter stopped want ing to go to school. Around October. Has never had contact since. We had to find another alternative school for her. Did ok first year at the school. A lot of texting me about stuff. Second year did great. Senior year just made it by skim of teeth as stopped doing homework and barley studied. So I think this friend issue has a lot to do with it. She feels hurt. They where attached at the hip. Similar interest in art. I can’t prove it and she won’t talk about it and it was felt not to ask in therapy.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Drew64, post: 740022, member: 18676"] Well I didn’t ask her. She was mad cutting up my wife’s stuff. That’s the reason. Today took her to have hair looked girl was great and gave her options. Cut it a little shorter or use clip on extensions. Both were no answers. I left it at that for now. Later took her to dentist appointment. She hasent brushed her teeth in a while. I gave up on asking. Two cavities for which go back in 2 weeks. She said she didn’t care. She likes her miserable life. Again I offered her support and told her what mom did was horrible but you can’t live like she is. Got home and she went right up to computer to play. She doesent want to go to classes now until her hair grows back. I have to laugh because that’s going to take a year. I will have to see about maybe having her just take an art class since graphic arts is her interest. Maybe they can move her to the daytime one. Or she can just do the night one. That I have to speak to my wife about amd daughter. At least it would get her out of the house and maybe find someone with similar interests. I was hoping she would join a club. They have like 100 of them. My feeling is now if she’s not going to class or working than she has to go to therapy at least once a week or no laptop. It’s to fill you in I was talking to my aunt about things and she reminded me my daughter threw tantrums when she was young too. But this came to a head when her best friend was out of school because she started self mutilating. At the time we didn’t know it we thought she was just in hospital for an illness or something. Later found out that was why. She missed two years of school amd supossedly an e mail that got out from someone blamed my daughter for her doing this. Then sophomore year in high school the year this friend came back my daughter stopped want ing to go to school. Around October. Has never had contact since. We had to find another alternative school for her. Did ok first year at the school. A lot of texting me about stuff. Second year did great. Senior year just made it by skim of teeth as stopped doing homework and barley studied. So I think this friend issue has a lot to do with it. She feels hurt. They where attached at the hip. Similar interest in art. I can’t prove it and she won’t talk about it and it was felt not to ask in therapy. [/QUOTE]
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