You didn't do anything wrong.
There's a thread on ODD in the classroom in the Sp Ed Archives.
www.iep4u.com may have some info you can use re: IEPs.
Also, National Technical Assistance Center on Positive Behavioral Interventions and Supports (PBIS) @ http://www.pbis.org/.
This plan doesn't appear to be working. It wouldn't suprise me if things don't get worse -- too punitive.
Actually, what was written in the FBA left me flabbergasted. In essence, what it indicates to me is that one teacher is not able to handle the student. So, the "behavior plan" appears to be for the benefit of one educator who may not have sufficient bebavior management training.
by the way, https://web.archive.org/web/20080229063240/http://www.aboutautismlaw.com/sample_chapter.html is written specific to autism, HOWEVER, it applies to all IEP students. The crust is: "The Law Says that All Regular Education Teachers, Special Education Teachers, Aides, and Other Service Providers Must Have the Skills and Knowledge Necessary to Meet the Needs of Your Child. " In short, you would be within your rights to request appropriate training for any educator you feel needs it. Can't say that would necessarily make you popular on campus.....
As I mentioned previously, if the IEP isn't working you can call an IEP meeting at any time.
