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<blockquote data-quote="mrscatinthehat" data-source="post: 185194" data-attributes="member: 2063">for suicide.&nbsp; This time it is difficult child 2.&nbsp; Evidentally he wrote a letter to his dad and they read all outgoing mail from his lovely abode.&nbsp; He mentioned some things they told husband that indicated that he was thinking, planning suicide.&nbsp; He hadn't done any of this in quite some time.&nbsp; I believe it started last year about this time and ended when he did the stuff at the end of the year that got him into juvie.&nbsp; (Seeing biomom and then the molesting of the other child).&nbsp; Now it is starting again.&nbsp; I am not sure what it is about this time of year that gets him going.&nbsp; Because as I sit here and think this is the time of year he hurt easy child.&nbsp; This is the time of year he beat the **** out of me.&nbsp; Funny (not haha) how all these things can happen over the years (and so much more) but in the past I was always so worked up about everything that I was not necessarily thinking of all the details.&nbsp; I don't get as upset or worked up about these things anymore (not that I want it to happen but well I realize I can't control it if they do and I am not there to do anything to even if I could) so I am much more cognizant of the fact that a lot of this stuff starts in early to mid august and goes til after the holidays.&nbsp; &nbsp;I will have to chat with husband about it and pass it on to the folks at juvie (not that it will help but at least we are letting them know what we have noticed).&nbsp;husband just looked so down tonight.&nbsp; He told me he didn't want to tell me why.&nbsp; Ironic that I said oh ok and walked away and he is still dwelling heavily on it.&nbsp; &nbsp;Heaven help these kids because I don't know what else can at this point.&nbsp;beth</blockquote>

[QUOTE="mrscatinthehat, post: 185194, member: 2063"] for suicide. This time it is difficult child 2. Evidentally he wrote a letter to his dad and they read all outgoing mail from his lovely abode. He mentioned some things they told husband that indicated that he was thinking, planning suicide. He hadn't done any of this in quite some time. I believe it started last year about this time and ended when he did the stuff at the end of the year that got him into juvie. (Seeing biomom and then the molesting of the other child). Now it is starting again. I am not sure what it is about this time of year that gets him going. Because as I sit here and think this is the time of year he hurt easy child. This is the time of year he beat the **** out of me. Funny (not haha) how all these things can happen over the years (and so much more) but in the past I was always so worked up about everything that I was not necessarily thinking of all the details. I don't get as upset or worked up about these things anymore (not that I want it to happen but well I realize I can't control it if they do and I am not there to do anything to even if I could) so I am much more cognizant of the fact that a lot of this stuff starts in early to mid august and goes til after the holidays. I will have to chat with husband about it and pass it on to the folks at juvie (not that it will help but at least we are letting them know what we have noticed). husband just looked so down tonight. He told me he didn't want to tell me why. Ironic that I said oh ok and walked away and he is still dwelling heavily on it. Heaven help these kids because I don't know what else can at this point. beth [/QUOTE]

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