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Best gift we can ever give our DCs: The gift of detachment with love
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 673566" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Brilliantly stated COM. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I did this too, because I believed that is what a loving mother did.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>That shift in perception, for me, was the change I needed to let go.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Detachment freed both my daughter and I to move ahead with our separate lives. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Boundaries, for me, were the basic necessary tools for me to learn to detach. </p><p></p><p>The process of letting go is painful, as all change is, in particular the letting go of our "perceived" responsibilities as parents..........and yet it is the way, in my opinion, for freedom and peace of mind to emerge out of the chaos and suffering.</p><p></p><p>Thanks COM.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 673566, member: 13542"] Brilliantly stated COM. I did this too, because I believed that is what a loving mother did. That shift in perception, for me, was the change I needed to let go. Detachment freed both my daughter and I to move ahead with our separate lives. Boundaries, for me, were the basic necessary tools for me to learn to detach. The process of letting go is painful, as all change is, in particular the letting go of our "perceived" responsibilities as parents..........and yet it is the way, in my opinion, for freedom and peace of mind to emerge out of the chaos and suffering. Thanks COM. [/QUOTE]
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