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Boundaries...Please read Copa and Cedar...please answer. Thanks.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 667230" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Yep. You are 100% right. She wanted a relationship a lot. I was sort of the mother who was dead and she could talk to me. And I listened. But I wouldn't do her bidding. I don't suppose my mother did either, however my mother was more impportant to my sister than I am so she put up with it. My mother was NOT easy to get along with and I'm sure she baited my sister.</p><p></p><p>Ok, well, that all answers my question. A boundary, unless it is physical, is very subjective. I feel my boundary was very fair and that I had done my time listening to her talk about this abusive man while never leaving her. She felt I was silencing her. In the case of him, I was, for MY sake. And that was ok and her response was ok.</p><p></p><p>Thanks!!!! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 667230, member: 1550"] Yep. You are 100% right. She wanted a relationship a lot. I was sort of the mother who was dead and she could talk to me. And I listened. But I wouldn't do her bidding. I don't suppose my mother did either, however my mother was more impportant to my sister than I am so she put up with it. My mother was NOT easy to get along with and I'm sure she baited my sister. Ok, well, that all answers my question. A boundary, unless it is physical, is very subjective. I feel my boundary was very fair and that I had done my time listening to her talk about this abusive man while never leaving her. She felt I was silencing her. In the case of him, I was, for MY sake. And that was ok and her response was ok. Thanks!!!! :) [/QUOTE]
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