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Boundaries...Please read Copa and Cedar...please answer. Thanks.
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 667299" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>That is not true, Cedar. They love and care about you as much as they are able. It is about control and power over, not love and care. Sadly, their need for the former trumps the latter. They are less for it, not you.</p><p>Yes. I agree. I think she went no contact because you set a limit. That you loved her more than to listen to her for yet more years go round and round about her abusive boyfriend. </p><p></p><p>She punished you for setting a limit. How dare you, Serenity? She is the one who gets to control everything (like my own sister.) And then? You decided you no longer would tolerate being punished by her, just for protecting her and yourself. For doing the right thing for both of you. Not for you. Not for her. For both of you.</p><p></p><p>Serenity, I wish you could accept you took the high road. For both of you. That you did the right thing. Nobody is expected to allow themselves to be destroyed by another person. Please try to understand this. </p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 667299, member: 18958"] That is not true, Cedar. They love and care about you as much as they are able. It is about control and power over, not love and care. Sadly, their need for the former trumps the latter. They are less for it, not you. Yes. I agree. I think she went no contact because you set a limit. That you loved her more than to listen to her for yet more years go round and round about her abusive boyfriend. She punished you for setting a limit. How dare you, Serenity? She is the one who gets to control everything (like my own sister.) And then? You decided you no longer would tolerate being punished by her, just for protecting her and yourself. For doing the right thing for both of you. Not for you. Not for her. For both of you. Serenity, I wish you could accept you took the high road. For both of you. That you did the right thing. Nobody is expected to allow themselves to be destroyed by another person. Please try to understand this. COPA [/QUOTE]
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