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Boundaries...Please read Copa and Cedar...please answer. Thanks.
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 667302" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I missed this. I love it, too.</p><p></p><p>When somebody is degrading us, or hurting us continuously, (pretty much my whole family of origin fits these criteria, unfortunately, for me) there is no negotiating with them...because they have already shown by their crossing the line into terrorism...that they will not negotiate fairly...that conversation is not what they seek. Reciprocity, back and forth, they have rejected for power over. Because even in the case of my father...having chosen a life of degradation...insisted upon subjecting me to this, insisting I witness his sadism.</p><p></p><p>I had not a choice, but to leave.</p><p></p><p>I want to add this. Sometimes we indirectly accuse ourselves (and were accused by others) as being the problem because of our sensitivity.</p><p></p><p>Does the sensitivity of ISIS captives ever enter into the discussion?</p><p></p><p>Is the sadism, brutality, inhumanity and culpability of their captors ever considered to be even partially excused by taking into account individual differences of captives? No.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 667302, member: 18958"] I missed this. I love it, too. When somebody is degrading us, or hurting us continuously, (pretty much my whole family of origin fits these criteria, unfortunately, for me) there is no negotiating with them...because they have already shown by their crossing the line into terrorism...that they will not negotiate fairly...that conversation is not what they seek. Reciprocity, back and forth, they have rejected for power over. Because even in the case of my father...having chosen a life of degradation...insisted upon subjecting me to this, insisting I witness his sadism. I had not a choice, but to leave. I want to add this. Sometimes we indirectly accuse ourselves (and were accused by others) as being the problem because of our sensitivity. Does the sensitivity of ISIS captives ever enter into the discussion? Is the sadism, brutality, inhumanity and culpability of their captors ever considered to be even partially excused by taking into account individual differences of captives? No. [/QUOTE]
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