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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 702862" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Copa:</p><p></p><p>We are all guilty of enabling in some way. We all want better for our kids. We want THEM to WANT better for themselves. We may love them to the moon and back but we don't like them. </p><p></p><p>All the while questioning every move we make. Is it the right move? Will it even make a difference in the end anyway??</p><p></p><p>Someone said it on here before and I have to agree - it is best when adult children do not live with their parents - for many reasons and especially the Difficult Child.</p><p></p><p>We have to do what we have to do to live with ourselves too. In the end I just don't know how big of a difference it makes.</p><p></p><p>I see that post on Facebook all the time about what a great feeling it is to see how wonderful your adult children have turned out - or something like that. Ya, not so much for everyone.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and sorry to hear your pain.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 702862, member: 15032"] Copa: We are all guilty of enabling in some way. We all want better for our kids. We want THEM to WANT better for themselves. We may love them to the moon and back but we don't like them. All the while questioning every move we make. Is it the right move? Will it even make a difference in the end anyway?? Someone said it on here before and I have to agree - it is best when adult children do not live with their parents - for many reasons and especially the Difficult Child. We have to do what we have to do to live with ourselves too. In the end I just don't know how big of a difference it makes. I see that post on Facebook all the time about what a great feeling it is to see how wonderful your adult children have turned out - or something like that. Ya, not so much for everyone. Hugs and sorry to hear your pain. [/QUOTE]
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