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<blockquote data-quote="Elsi" data-source="post: 744187" data-attributes="member: 23349"><p>Copa, that’s one way to look at it, and whenever we have a break like this with friend I think it’s important to look deeply at our own part in it. It sounds like BBB is doing that with her counselor. I don’t know much of the history here. But it sounded to me like there is a history of periodic estrangement here. That perhaps estrangement is being used as a method of control. And that’s not healthy, or fair.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>SWOT I was excommunicated by my church before the ink was dry on my divorce papers. In my friends’s mind, she picked God over me, because she believed she would go to hell if she continued to associate with me. I am sure she felt very deep sorrow over it. Like I said, I knew the cost when I left. It was worth it. I have my life now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Elsi, post: 744187, member: 23349"] Copa, that’s one way to look at it, and whenever we have a break like this with friend I think it’s important to look deeply at our own part in it. It sounds like BBB is doing that with her counselor. I don’t know much of the history here. But it sounded to me like there is a history of periodic estrangement here. That perhaps estrangement is being used as a method of control. And that’s not healthy, or fair. SWOT I was excommunicated by my church before the ink was dry on my divorce papers. In my friends’s mind, she picked God over me, because she believed she would go to hell if she continued to associate with me. I am sure she felt very deep sorrow over it. Like I said, I knew the cost when I left. It was worth it. I have my life now. [/QUOTE]
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