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<blockquote data-quote="Echolette" data-source="post: 635595" data-attributes="member: 17269"><p>JKF,</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry this happened to you. She was WAAAAYYY out of line. It is not your job to help an adult who has dug his own pit and has refused your help all along. In fact your parenting knowledge and experience tells you otherwise...that stepping in to bail him out now will enable and prolong his dysfunction (and make no mistake about it, it will).</p><p></p><p>That she was accusatory or rude to you is unprofessional and inexcusable. I'm sure Hope is right, that she has a pay scale related to how many people she can clear out of the hospital each week. This is HER problem, not his problem, and not your problem. Remember THAT. HER problem. You definitely don't need to take on a strangers issues!</p><p></p><p>I can also be brought to tears by the judgement of people working in this field. Fortunately the good ones "get" it, and don't ever go there. She isn't one of the good ones. YOU on the other hand, are fine!</p><p></p><p>Echo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Echolette, post: 635595, member: 17269"] JKF, I'm sorry this happened to you. She was WAAAAYYY out of line. It is not your job to help an adult who has dug his own pit and has refused your help all along. In fact your parenting knowledge and experience tells you otherwise...that stepping in to bail him out now will enable and prolong his dysfunction (and make no mistake about it, it will). That she was accusatory or rude to you is unprofessional and inexcusable. I'm sure Hope is right, that she has a pay scale related to how many people she can clear out of the hospital each week. This is HER problem, not his problem, and not your problem. Remember THAT. HER problem. You definitely don't need to take on a strangers issues! I can also be brought to tears by the judgement of people working in this field. Fortunately the good ones "get" it, and don't ever go there. She isn't one of the good ones. YOU on the other hand, are fine! Echo [/QUOTE]
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