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Can we talk about what boundaries really mean?
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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 627007" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>I do, too, but that's on me, not on the other person. I feel cut off, disconnected, lonely, and like I've done something wrong. </p><p></p><p>I probably have. And I don't like feeling that way.</p><p></p><p>The key question is: What do I do when I have that feeling? Do I strike back? I used to. I could give as good as I got.</p><p></p><p>Today, I am working to own my own stuff. If somebody says to me, hey I don't want to talk about that anymore, I need to feel my feelings about it, keep my mouth shut, and reflect on it later. </p><p></p><p>Most of the time, they are right. Sometimes they may not be, but I can't figure that out in the moment.</p><p></p><p>Time. Blessed time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 627007, member: 17542"] I do, too, but that's on me, not on the other person. I feel cut off, disconnected, lonely, and like I've done something wrong. I probably have. And I don't like feeling that way. The key question is: What do I do when I have that feeling? Do I strike back? I used to. I could give as good as I got. Today, I am working to own my own stuff. If somebody says to me, hey I don't want to talk about that anymore, I need to feel my feelings about it, keep my mouth shut, and reflect on it later. Most of the time, they are right. Sometimes they may not be, but I can't figure that out in the moment. Time. Blessed time. [/QUOTE]
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