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Can you forgive him forever?
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 742374" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>No, of course not. Regardless of whether it's our own child, another family member or someone else, if someone is too toxic for us then we need to cut them out of our lives. This does not make us a terrible person. Our lives matter too!! We need to protect ourselves from people who are not good for us.</p><p>I will always love my son just as you will always love yours. Our love for them does not go away and we are not obligated to make everything in their world okay for them as they are grown men.</p><p>My husband and I, in our wills have left everything to our grandchildren. The children my son has abandoned. Yes, in our wills we have disowned our son. I cannot in good conscience leave him everything we have worked so hard for all of the years only to have him squander it away. He has never provided for his kids so this is our way of helping our grands.</p><p>Nothing is written in stone. Time will tell. My son and your son could change which I pray they both do. As I stated in my previous post, until they truly accept and show true regret for their life choices and actions that have caused hurt, then nothing will change for them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 742374, member: 18516"] No, of course not. Regardless of whether it's our own child, another family member or someone else, if someone is too toxic for us then we need to cut them out of our lives. This does not make us a terrible person. Our lives matter too!! We need to protect ourselves from people who are not good for us. I will always love my son just as you will always love yours. Our love for them does not go away and we are not obligated to make everything in their world okay for them as they are grown men. My husband and I, in our wills have left everything to our grandchildren. The children my son has abandoned. Yes, in our wills we have disowned our son. I cannot in good conscience leave him everything we have worked so hard for all of the years only to have him squander it away. He has never provided for his kids so this is our way of helping our grands. Nothing is written in stone. Time will tell. My son and your son could change which I pray they both do. As I stated in my previous post, until they truly accept and show true regret for their life choices and actions that have caused hurt, then nothing will change for them. [/QUOTE]
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