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Can you forgive him forever?
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 742449" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>We all have to do what we can live with. One thing I do know for myself is to never say never. A few years back I completely cut my son off thinking that's it, I will never speak to him again. His verbal abuse was more than I could handle. I did not communicate with him for well over a year. He reached out to my husband and I eased back into communicating with him. </p><p>While we do have a line of communication open, it's weak at best. I am very detached from my son and I do that for my own well being. I also know with certainty that I would not hesitate to cut off all communication with him again if he ever treats me the way he did before.</p><p>I completely support you with whatever you choose to do for yourself. </p><p></p><p></p><p>None of us are. What we are? We are Warrior Parents who have lived in the trenches of battle and chaos. We are better than Wonder Woman. We are survivors. We are stronger than we give ourselves credit for. I mean really, not many people could deal with all that we have. </p><p></p><p>Live your life the very best you can! Do not allow your son, your mother or anyone else to abuse you or steal joy from your life. </p><p></p><p>I hope you go out today and do something really special for yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 742449, member: 18516"] We all have to do what we can live with. One thing I do know for myself is to never say never. A few years back I completely cut my son off thinking that's it, I will never speak to him again. His verbal abuse was more than I could handle. I did not communicate with him for well over a year. He reached out to my husband and I eased back into communicating with him. While we do have a line of communication open, it's weak at best. I am very detached from my son and I do that for my own well being. I also know with certainty that I would not hesitate to cut off all communication with him again if he ever treats me the way he did before. I completely support you with whatever you choose to do for yourself. None of us are. What we are? We are Warrior Parents who have lived in the trenches of battle and chaos. We are better than Wonder Woman. We are survivors. We are stronger than we give ourselves credit for. I mean really, not many people could deal with all that we have. Live your life the very best you can! Do not allow your son, your mother or anyone else to abuse you or steal joy from your life. I hope you go out today and do something really special for yourself. [/QUOTE]
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